Any movement must be started from within yourself. Then the world around you will contribute and please you.
Life is a very simple thing. We realize it as soon as we stop exaggerating everything in our head with multiple circles of thoughts and a lot of fears, predictions, incomprehensibly based on what. Thinking a lot about the past, trying to predict the future, we completely forget about the present moment. The only moment when we can react, decide, do not miss, see.
Everything that essentially makes the world around you the best it can be for you is WANT. CAN. DO.
Hear your Want ->
to feel that it is your desire, not imposed, and to accept it (I can) ->
figure out how you can make it happen, find your Might ->
and once you know exactly how to proceed (have a plan or rely on intuition, announce out loud with words through your mouth, doesn't matter) -> ->
you go and do it.
You don't put it off, you don't wait for others to guess about your desires and read your thoughts. You physically make physical movements in the direction of the realization of your desire. Permanently, you can take small steps, as you can now, it is not so important. The main thing is that the thought was supported by motivation, faith in success and understanding, and began to physically materialize in the material world somehow.
So you physically connect your inner state and expectations of life, with this very world around you, forming a specific intention. Connecting in your own way for the moment now and your own actions that are available to you now. You are no longer a consequence of the external world, you are shaping it.
You have a much better chance of getting what you want, and in exactly the version you envision. Waiting for things to organize themselves or relying on others takes a lot of time and effort, and it is not at all certain that the result will suit you. If they do, they will do it the way they envision it, and also the way they want to and can. There are too many variables in this equation. And even the most perfect assistant can do something that will not be about you at all.
It's scary to imagine how much time we spend waiting for a better way or a better time. How many nerves are wasted on dissatisfaction with others (they didn't do it the way you should have), how many people are lost from shattered expectations, dreams shattered from disbelief in success.
And most importantly, opportunities don't wait long. If you didn't take it, you didn't use it, then it was necessary. There may not be a second time. The chance is gone.
Movement is life. The less water moves, the faster it will turn into a swamp.
That's why I advocate so strongly for my clients' work between sessions. And the more unusual and unique their way of turning insights into reality, the more likely they are to get exactly what they want. Thinking alone will not get you far, and other people will not realize your dreams for you.